He has a Girlfriend =(
- Tuesday, 14 June 2011
"Hi Bubbi, I like this guy and I have had a crush on him since 2nd grade. We get on very well as friends but he has a girlfriend. The worse thing is his girlfriend is my best friend. I'm upset because she knew I liked him but still went for him. I feel so betrayed and I can tell he likes me but is only with her because she made a move at him in her birthday party. What should I do? I have been best friends with her since we were little and I don't know if I should tell her or him. Please help. I cry every night because of this =((((( " - Anonymous
First of all, big hugs for you babes. This must be a horrible situation to be in right now and it's even harder that you can't confide in your very own best friend about this problem you are experiencing.
I guess all I can say is, as long as they are still together, the best thing to do is to stay out. If this friendship is really valuable to you, don't let a boy come between you two. It's unfortunate that she still went for him whilst knowing it will hurt you so for this- I think you are obligated to tell her how you think. If this friendship is precious to you (and your friend), you both should talk and work things out. But as for the guy, you're going to have to hold your feelings back. If they look happy together then you're going to have to be the bigger person and be happy for them. I know this is going to be difficult sweetheart but remember that there are plenty of other fishes in the sea. For now, focus on being busy and do things that make you happy. Why not treat yourself by getting a new outfit, hairstyle or shoes? I say you spend some quality time with your friends and catch a good old comedy movie. You can do it sweetheart!